This took me a long time to figure out, but I finally learned it feels much better inside to take responsibility for my own life. Once I took control, I could lead the life I wanted. I figured out that I get to choose most of it. If I looked deep and without judgment, I could see it from a whole new perspective. I am in charge of my feelings, future, happiness, money, worth, etc and boy does that feel good!
I lost the victim mentality of everything happening TO me and changed it in my head that everything is happening FOR me. This helped, too. Try walking around saying, “Everything works for me!” It changes it all! I promise! Try it, you’ll like it.
My brain is capable of so much more and I believe that putting positive info into my head heals in ways I never knew possible.